He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have.
Do you see yourself being with him for many years. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. At 30, you just give up. Its really much harder than what I thought. I'm dating a Mormon girl right now but we both understand that it is most likely isn't going to last long. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day.
You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. Over the past year he has been telling me that he feels second to my schoolwork and my other responsibilities. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. Mormon children are advised, in their religion, to refrain from dating until they are at least 16 years of age. I am a fierce supporter of him and of his profession but at high cost to my own individuality.
I feel like the person who is giving our relationship strength, and the one who will keep our family going in the right direction in the future, as well. Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. Oh this is a great set of questions. Our relationship also hasn't really progressed-- we're still only spending the same amount of time together that we were a few months ago.